No, w. an adoptive parent, they have an excellent chance of developing fine -- it's the foster kid program which is a disaster.workinwifdakids wrote:As an adoptive parent of two, the nature/nurture argument is always on my mind. There is so much about my daughters that I don't know, but what's your point? That they would've been better off as orphans, or that we're fools for adding nurture to nature?
My point was that the religion based systems had a much better record than the foster care system/current secular systems -- your adopted children are your children, not orphans.
Although, IMO, it would be useful for you to know the genetic history of your children's biological parents -- EG, my family has to be tested to see if we're carriers for something called Leyden Factor 5 -- by knowing to be tested for it, if we do have it, we can take some medication, and be perfectly healthy.