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Neil Gaiman quote

Posted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 7:24 am
by Cybrludite
The full version of the new quote in my sig. Got hit with an unpleasant Dear John-ing recently, which brought it to mind.
“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.”

Re: Neil Gaiman quote

Posted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 9:53 am
by Denis
Cybrludite wrote:Got hit with an unpleasant Dear John-ing recently...
Brother, that's too bad. Excellent quote, though...

Re: Neil Gaiman quote

Posted: Tue Jul 14, 2009 12:19 pm
by Cybrludite
Denis wrote:
Cybrludite wrote:Got hit with an unpleasant Dear John-ing recently...
Brother, that's too bad. Excellent quote, though...
On the plus side, I'm a very friendly guy. Wherever I go, women just want to be friends with me... :roll:

Re: Neil Gaiman quote

Posted: Wed Jul 15, 2009 2:19 am
by Rustyv
Cybrludite wrote:The full version of the new quote in my sig. Got hit with an unpleasant Dear John-ing recently, which brought it to mind.
“Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn't it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you, then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life...You give them a piece of you. They didn't ask for it. They did something dumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn't your own anymore. Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness, so simple a phrase like 'maybe we should be just friends' turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It's a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and-rips-you-apart pain. I hate love.”
yup.

Sorry to hear it man.

Re: Neil Gaiman quote

Posted: Wed Jul 15, 2009 2:55 am
by Ben Rumson
Sorry to hear it also. I don't remember your age, but if you're young it will pass and those girls will turn into women one day and change their "friend" view.

If you're old, I'll go shut up now. :oops:

Re: Neil Gaiman quote

Posted: Wed Jul 15, 2009 6:01 pm
by moose42
This reminds me of this scene from the Wedding Singer!

Oh and I mean this in the best way possible! Sometimes you just need to laugh at your situation.
Robbie: [singing] You love her/ but she loves him/ but he loves somebody else/ you just can't win/ and so it goes until the day you die/ this thing called love is going to make you cry. I hate you/ I've had the blues the reds and the pinks/ One thing's for sure.
[holds microphone to fat man]
Fat Man: Love stinks?
Robbie: Love stinks/ Yeah yeah
[holds microphone to fat man]
Fat Man: Love stinks!
Robbie: Love stinks/ Yeah, yeah
[holds microphone to lady with sideburns]
Sideburns Lady: Love stinks.
Robbie: Love stinks. Yeah yeah.
[holds microphone to table 9]
Table 9: Love stinks.
Robbie: Love stinks/ Yeah yeah.
[Bride's father punches Robbie, Robbie falls back on a table. Bride's father jumps on him and pushes and pulls him]
Robbie: Love stinks/ Love stinks/*Love stinks!*

Re: Neil Gaiman quote

Posted: Wed Jul 15, 2009 8:25 pm
by Cybrludite
Ben Rumson wrote:Sorry to hear it also. I don't remember your age, but if you're young it will pass and those girls will turn into women one day and change their "friend" view.

If you're old, I'll go shut up now. :oops:
Well, I'm not young. :oops: Main problem seems to be that any lady smart enough for me to fall for is going to be too smart to fall for me. :|

Re: Neil Gaiman quote

Posted: Thu Jul 16, 2009 11:34 am
by HTRN
Cybrludite wrote:I'm a very friendly guy.
Then what are you doing here? :mrgreen:


HTRN

Re: Neil Gaiman quote

Posted: Fri Jul 17, 2009 4:30 am
by Dub_James
Cybrludite wrote:
Denis wrote:
Cybrludite wrote:Got hit with an unpleasant Dear John-ing recently...
Brother, that's too bad. Excellent quote, though...
On the plus side, I'm a very friendly guy. Wherever I go, women just want to be friends with me... :roll:
Ah, the friend zone. I believe John Ross had some advice for that kind of thing on his "In Range" website.

Of course, you could always write a song... :lol: