The Gun Counter

Is it in bad taste to ask a coworker if they carry in the office?

Guess it depends on the workplace. My response would be "I'll never tell".

My personal opinion is that it's poor taste to ask anyone anywhere unless they've made it clear or you're good friends and both gunnies.

Don't ask, don't tell.

Always assume everyone around you is armed. Since 99% of all people pose no immediate threat to you, don't worry about it.

For the other 1%, those that do pose an immediate threat if I'm in their vicinity, whether or not they have a firearm is a tactical consideration, not a determining factor as to whether I take action or not.

Will she let you pat her down for verification???

Seems like the ultimate in poor taste. And if you have to ask us, I think you already know the answer.